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Interested in gay sex, but in a serious straight relationship (male) by trowaycntin sex

[–]alan_winslow -4 points-3 points ago

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Where do you live? There a gay male bath houses all around. It can be over whelming at first but plenty of opportunity to experiment discreetly.

You should talk with your partner about your desires if you find you enjoy guys. Let her know you're not interested in hurting your relationship but you've found you need something more.

Get the book 'The Ethical Slut' and read it together.

Who enjoys being a slut? Serious question. I think it's awesome. by side2in sex

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I'm a slut but an ethical one, I only play with people who say YES.

Nothing wrong with the word slut. Be one, Be Proud!

As a long time ethical non-monogamist I'm lucky enough to have many wonderful lovers as well as a fetish for anonymous sex.

my gf and i are going to our first orgy tonight! by savageelementsin sex

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Cool, have you two talked about what you expect of each other? Limits? Will you play with others together or separately? Safer Sex?

Sex parties can be a total blast and open new horizons but there are also many traps. Be aware.

The first thing to be sure of is you can say NO! If someone approaches you or her and you do not want them to continue their advances say NO and continue to say no.

Another thing, if you and your GF intend to play together, which is often a good idea for novices as it lowers the potential for jealously, talk privately about who you will play with. Often you'll meet or be approached by someone(s) and they want to play with both of you. Make sure you can privately check with your GF that you both want to continue with them.

Safer Sex! Bring your own supplies! Lube and condoms. Agree between yourselves where your barrier limits are. Do you require barriers for Oral Sex? Gloves for hands? None? Once you set those limits between yourselves stick to them!

Enjoy!

I'm wearing purple today, are you? by rgylungin lgbt

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Yup. Purple camo's!

Opened up completely to my wife - now we're at it all the time by Feeldoe_Curiousin sex

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Did you get your wife to open up and tell you HER desires and fantasies?

When I opened up to my wife 11 years ago, she responded by opening up too and away we went. YUM! After almost 40 years of marriage things are still HOT!

Hugs!

I'm sick of "faggot" used as a generic insult by genjin lgbt

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Last week as I left the super-market some deranged crack head was ranted at everyone he passed as he walked through the parking lot. A cute guy was loading his car and the idiot shouted 'And all you faggots are ugly!'. Cute guy just shook his head. I turned to cute guy and said, "So what's wrong with being a faggot anyway." He replied, "Nothing, just don't tell my nephew," winking and pointing to the VERY cute younger guy with him.

For the love of God, please could someone help me learn how to give my boyfriend a blowjob he will actually orgasm from? by whitefuckinrosesin sex

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Totally correct comment. It is HIS fault if he hasn't helped you get better by communicating what he likes.

Polyamory has a FAQ up, due to the number of threesome and such submissions lately I thought /r/sex would enjoy by [deleted]in sex

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Totally cool FAQ! Thanks from those of us who are polyamorous! We're poly and successfully so. 39+ years of consensual non-monogamy!

The Droid Incredible by HTC is the future of computing in the palm of your hand by qgyh2in promos

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I just got mine. It's WAY faster than my iPohone 3Gs.

Battery life is all about managing your apps and what they have access to.

My girlfriend said that this weekend I can do anything to her. by Smoked_Herbin sex

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Orgasm denial followed by release. Bring her to the edge of cumming then back off. Do it four or five times never letting her know if you are going to let her cum or not. Then let her cum.

Yum

Google Nexus One now compatible with AT&T's 3G network...Same price, no contract. by [deleted]in Android

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THANKS! I think I'll do that. I'll use the iPhone as my default and develop on the N!.

Google launches the Nexus One with AT&T and Rogers support by motangin Android

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Does anyone know if I can pop out the SIMM card from my iPhone and just stick it into the ATT/Nexus One?

Google Nexus One now compatible with AT&T's 3G network...Same price, no contract. by [deleted]in Android

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Does anyone know if I can just pop the sim card from my ATT iphone and put it in a Nexus One for ATT?

What is your favorite type of lube? by accountforuseonGWin sex

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Depends on the activity. For vaginal play, ID water based. For anal toys I prefer silicon lubes that don't dry up.

The water based stuff works well where you can easily add a bit and it's very compatible with all types of toys. It does dry up and get sticky though and for anal play, silicon stays slippery forever. Yes, it's tough to wash off but a bit of soap and water normally does the trick.

Gay marriage: the database engineering perspective by DRMacIverin programming

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I'm a kink queer poly geek. This is the first solution set that would include me!

YEAH!!!!