In need of support

FailureFiasco · 2012-05-23T21:09:37.678717+00:00

You're more than halfway to the 90 day mark! Don't lose focus, remember why you're doing this in the first place!

nofapqq · 1 day

I think the failure stories revolve around failing at NoFap, not NoFap failing them. It's not a cure-all but it can't possibly harm you.

Watanabex · 1 day

I'd love to see Jason Mamoa come back as Daario.

Cross88 · 1 day

That's basically what happens when Sansa tries to thank the Hound for saving her this season.

Dubsdancer · 1 day

Keep practicing kid! And lift your arms up, way up, they spend too much time at your side, even when you're using them.

matrixmanxc · 1 day

Delete and block all the porn off your PC. Take cold showers. Don't touch your dick.

M8RT · 1 day

You haven't masturbated for one day. There's a planet filled with endless people to meet and things to do. Learn a new skill, study a new subject, drink a new drink. Don't masturbate for 90 days and I assure you a small voice in the back of your head will convince you to get out of the house.

M8RT · 1 day

Ideally you fill the time that you would have spent fapping with some sort of new hobby or activity.

donottouchwilly · 1 day

What do you need it for, if not to fap?

donottouchwilly · 1 day

Delete it all. Of the all the possible data you could be storing, what makes porn special?

drecha · 1 day

I didn't tell the person who took mine until a few months afterwards. Your first time will be memorable but too many people make too big a deal out of it.

faptfindingmission · 1 day

Don't be ridiculous, you do not fap to avoid wet dreams. You fap because you're addicted to fapping and internet porn. Wear boxers or PJs if you're so worried about messing up your sheets.

Incan4life · 1 day

Do it for 90 days and tell me yourself! Certainly it can't make things worse?

mlsweeney · 1 day

Take a calender, mark all the days over the next three months that you want to fap on, then cross them out!

G332989 · 2 days

Dopamine is one of the major brain juices that make you want to do the stuff you like to do. Orgasm causes a MASSIVE spike in dopamine, comparable only to hard drugs. Don't shoot heroin and you should be alright.

6789012345 · 2 days

Probably. Your urges are physically painful? Don't maintain/entertain an erection, do push-ups or even tensing up your legs as you sit at the computer should be enough to divert blood flow.

don_cab · 2 days

I keep the Buddhism's Noble Eightfold Path nearby my computer which has helped immensely. Right View, Right Action, Right Livelihood, Right Speech, Right Effort, Right Concentration, Right Mindfulness, Right Intent.

6789012345 · 2 days

I wouldn't recommend it. When you do this it's very easy to justify fapping at any time and falling right back into your rut. This is r/nofap, not r/faponceinawhile

DidntGetYourJoke · 3 days

Considering the challenge itself is 90 days, I would say you are not in the position to judge it's effectiveness until you reach that point!

iandravid · 3 days

There's nothing particularly unnatural about what you describe, but realize that your addiction is fundamentally about a general disconnect with reality. Next time you find yourself fantasizing about anything, instead focus on the reality in front of you. This includes the reality of sitting alone in front of your computer watching pixels fuck. Porn isn't nearly as appealing from that perspective.

Biscuitz · 3 days

Re-read your post and realize that you think you have an emotional attachment with a bunch of megabits of naked ladies. That should be motivation enough to turn things around!

onewone · 3 days

I'd reckon pretty much everyone doing this has similar experiences, some less and some more drastic, but all along the same spectrum. PMO for years can and does really twist your head around in ways that you probably haven't been aware of (since you were too busy fapping). Best of luck to you sir!

johnxreturn · 3 days

Luckily you will be able to answer this question yourself in 90 days!

YouPetroleumJelly · 4 days

The further you get into this the less anxious you will feel in crowds. However, while NoFap will NOT turn you into a social butterfly, it will help overcome those initial fears of getting into social situations in the first place, from there it's up to you.

Also, realize that more often than not, no one really cares about what you do or say, and all those anxious feelings are regarding completely imaginary circumstances.

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