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Reddit, what is the best piece of advice you know? (self.AskReddit)
submitted 3 months ago by sesla
Make sure to upvote if you answer! I don't get any karma for this post, and the higher the score, the more answers there are to read through.
[–]offconstantly 986 points987 points988 points 3 months ago
I use the "three-day rule." If you don't think you'll care about something in three days, don't waste time caring about it now.
[–]5PK 394 points395 points396 points 3 months ago
Interesting. A fellow coworker once told me "If it won't bother you in a week, don't let it bother you today." I've literally lived by this for over 3 years now.
[–]firstpageguy 152 points153 points154 points 3 months ago
and now i'm homeless
[–]blue_strat 486 points487 points488 points 3 months ago*
“Nobody tells this to people who are beginners, I wish someone told me. All of us who do creative work, we get into it because we have good taste. But there is this gap. For the first couple years you make stuff, it’s just not that good. It’s trying to be good, it has potential, but it’s not. But your taste, the thing that got you into the game, is still killer. And your taste is why your work disappoints you. A lot of people never get past this phase, they quit. Most people I know who do interesting, creative work went through years of this. We know our work doesn’t have this special thing that we want it to have. We all go through this. And if you are just starting out or you are still in this phase, you gotta know its normal and the most important thing you can do is do a lot of work. Put yourself on a deadline so that every week you will finish one story. It is only by going through a volume of work that you will close that gap, and your work will be as good as your ambitions. And I took longer to figure out how to do this than anyone I’ve ever met. It’s gonna take awhile. It’s normal to take a while. You’ve just gotta fight your way through.”
― Ira Glass
TL;DR - No one who is great at something was always great at it.
[–]Orelio 1635 points1636 points1637 points 3 months ago*
I learnt this myself the hard way through many years of fucking up:
Don't make any decision while you're angry.
Edit: Jesus Christ I'M SORRY, I'm native french. I meant "make any decision", not "take any decision". (Also waking up to so many red envelopes scared the shit out of me, god damnit Reddit.
[–]scrunci 1011 points1012 points1013 points 3 months ago
Alternatively:
Don't go shopping while you're hungry. That shit's ridiculous.
[–]Unidan 398 points399 points400 points 3 months ago
That works out sometimes. I'll go shopping while hungry, then, days later when I'm really jonesin' for something, I'll open my cabinet to find some delicious food item that I would normally never buy.
Good ol' past-self, always lookin' out for future-self. Except when he eats that stuff when he's present-self. That guy's a dick.
[–]I_Fapped_Anyway 331 points332 points333 points 3 months ago
"Delay decisions born of anger and hasten those born of compassion."
[–]ummwut 1263 points1264 points1265 points 3 months ago
closely related: masturbate before you make any serious decisions
[–]heylookoverthere 1220 points1221 points1222 points 3 months ago
This advice has led to some really weird business meetings.
[–]lurking_bishop 113 points114 points115 points 3 months ago
Somehow I believe we wouldn't be in this recession if there was a big jacking-off session just before the important G8 and G21 meetings. Or maybe I'm just into weird porn, I don't know
[–]phrotozoa 1320 points1321 points1322 points 3 months ago
"Shared pain is lessened, shared joy is increased". Spider Robinson.
[–]rhubarbbus 1431 points1432 points1433 points 3 months ago
"Never take advice from arachnids." Raid Pesticides
[–]johnsmcjohn 771 points772 points773 points 3 months ago
"Eat shit and die." Spider Jerusalem
[–]IceblinkLuck 1430 points1431 points1432 points 3 months ago
Keys, phone, wallet.
[–]nutterbutterbar 769 points770 points771 points 3 months ago
Slap check
[–]gormlesser 413 points414 points415 points 3 months ago
Spectacles, testicles, wallet and watch.
[–]Jewboy27 1291 points1292 points1293 points 3 months ago
You can't control how people act, only how you react.
[–]BossaNovaMoonDance 1611 points1612 points1613 points 3 months ago
Always tell the truth, it's much easier to remember.
[–]Vondon 965 points966 points967 points 3 months ago
No, they don't make your ass look fat. You are fat and they do nothing to minimize that fact.
[–]gmpalmer 1352 points1353 points1354 points 3 months ago
Relevant: never give more information than was asked for.
[–]HotRodLincoln 726 points727 points728 points 3 months ago
The West Wing S2:
Babish: Do you know what time it is?
C.J.: It's five past noon.
Babish: I'd like you to get out of the habit of doing that.
C.J.: Doing What?
Babish: Answering more than was asked. Do you know what time it is?
C.J.: Yes.
[–]ialsohaveadobro 92 points93 points94 points 3 months ago
This is the same conversation every lawyer has with a deposition witness client.
[–]Notmyrealname 52 points53 points54 points 3 months ago
Well, it depends on what your definition of "is" is.
[–]HighSorcerer 305 points306 points307 points 3 months ago
Especially when talking to women and/or police.
[–]Nexusmaxis 453 points454 points455 points 3 months ago*
The doctor at MEPS (military screening before you go to basic training) told me this.
"You wont get a lot of chances to really take control of your own life. When you do, don't let them pass you up, take them or you will wind up regretting it."
EDIT: Yes, I realize how ironic it is for someone helping me join the military to tell me to take control of my life. You have to read it in the context of the military. If this was what I wanted to do now, then I should take control of my life whenever I could, or else I would regret getting tossed around by other people. That was his point.
[–]HaterSalad 63 points64 points65 points 3 months ago
Mine told me, "Turn your head and cough."
[–]botticellilady 1275 points1276 points1277 points 3 months ago
Be best friends with your spouse, not just lovers.
[–]philon 1109 points1110 points1111 points 3 months ago
Have more friends than just spouse
[–]thom5r 659 points660 points661 points 3 months ago
But also: Be lovers with your spouse, not just best friends.
[–]forman98 869 points870 points871 points 3 months ago
Quit dwelling on what people think about you - spend way too much time still doing this.
[–]gamaliel64 782 points783 points784 points 3 months ago
You'll spend a lot less time wondering what people think of you once you realize that they don't.
[–]daderade 174 points175 points176 points 3 months ago
everyone's generally too busy worrying about what everyone is thinking of them. Unless they are people-watching.
[–]Flailwielder 541 points542 points543 points 3 months ago
Never make any life-changing decisions when you are drunk or horny.
[–]SarahPalinisaMuslim 784 points785 points786 points 3 months ago
So never make any life-changing decisions, then.
[–]goontownpopyou 642 points643 points644 points 3 months ago
My professor told us he lives by a piece of advice from his father.
Get out of bed, tie your shoes, and get out the door.
It's simple but it has made me second guess sleeping through an early class.
[–]The_Insurance 262 points263 points264 points 3 months ago
Get out of bed, tie your shoes, and get out the door
Everybody walk the dinosaur?
[–]polychaos 359 points360 points361 points 3 months ago
My dad told me: you live in a world full of fuckups. Chin up, everyone makes mistakes.
[–]helix19 1406 points1407 points1408 points 3 months ago
Make sure there's toilet paper BEFORE you sit down.
[–]nmbrox 399 points400 points401 points 3 months ago
Nothin' like a slow, butt-clenched walk to a fresh roll in another bathroom.
[–]Accurg 383 points384 points385 points 3 months ago*
Advice given to me by a composer: "If it sounds wrong to you, it's going to sound wrong to everyone else too."
Basically, be your own harshest critic, don't settle for doing something half-assed when you know you can do it better.
[–]DAsSNipez 282 points283 points284 points 3 months ago
Hm... advice from an Accordion teacher, "If you fuck up just keep going, they think you know what you're doing."
[–]Galphanore 44 points45 points46 points 3 months ago
Those two are not contradictory pieces of advice though. When you're creating the work, be your own worst critic. Once you're performing it you play as if it were perfection every step of the way.
[–]willworkforicecream 962 points963 points964 points 3 months ago
Don't panic.
[–]SavageReindeer[] 74 points75 points76 points 3 months ago
This is actually something I live by. Whenever something goes wrong or I'm questioning my future or relationships or ANYTHING, I can simply tell myself "Don't Panic."
And then get a chuckle out of thinking about the Hitchhiker's Guide.
[–]alreadyobsolete 1410 points1411 points1412 points 3 months ago
Buy a plunger before you need a plunger
Alternatively
School without experience isn't learning.
[–]sinkking 272 points273 points274 points 3 months ago
"Study without reflection is a waste of time; reflection without study is dangerous"
[–]ABCme 691 points692 points693 points 3 months ago
Oh, so college.
[–]fmlfml1 1081 points1082 points1083 points 3 months ago
No! College puts you in a job-cannon that fires straight into job-land, don't you know?!
[–]ABCme 701 points702 points703 points 3 months ago
Fuck, I must've forgotten my job helmet! No wonder...
[–]weapongod30 524 points525 points526 points 3 months ago
It's okay, there're still plenty of jobs hanging on jobbies to grab.
[–]riversfan17 170 points171 points172 points 3 months ago
Don't forget to wiggle into your job-suit!
[–]IdesOfMarch 642 points643 points644 points 3 months ago
If you want to lose a "friend," lend them money.
[–]procrastimaster 520 points521 points522 points 3 months ago
when it comes to friends and money: "always expect a loan to become a gift". it really does save friendships.
[–]gmpalmer 134 points135 points136 points 3 months ago
Friends and anything. As my father said: never loan anything you expect to get back.
[–]StormTAG 25 points26 points27 points 3 months ago
I go one farther, "Give gifts to friends, never make loans."
[–]cjmalloy 66 points67 points68 points 3 months ago
My grandfather did this to an old dude that kept smoking all his cigarettes on him. He lent him 20 bucks (that was a lot). My grandmother told him, you know you'll never see that money again. To which he replied, I'll never see him again either.
[–]ravenouscraving 40 points41 points42 points 3 months ago
Sometimes lending people money is a small price to pay to never see them again.
[–]deptii 478 points479 points480 points 3 months ago
I recently discovered this one and have been trying to live up to it:
“The person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing, is nothing, and becomes nothing. He may avoid suffering and sorrow, but he simply cannot learn, feel, change, grow or love. Chained by his certitude, he is a slave; he has forfeited his freedom. Only the person who risks is truly free.” ― Leo Buscaglia
[–]Saw_What_U_Did_There 448 points449 points450 points 3 months ago
"A ship is safe upon the shore, but that was not what the ship was made for"- Written by unknown on the bathroom wall of the bar I work in.
[–][deleted] 253 points254 points255 points 3 months ago
Except Costa Concordia.
[–]refenestration 2047 points2048 points2049 points 3 months ago
When I was an angsty teenager, I sat up one night and talked with my grandpa for a few hours. He told me "I don't care what your problems are, I know you have problems we all do. But the thing is, nothing I can do will fix your problems. Nothing anyone can do can fix your problems. You have to sit down, and figure out what your problem is. And then you have to figure out what you need to do to fix your problem. And then you do that." It was so simple. But it's helped me a lot, oddly enough.
[–]PenguinPowaaa 879 points880 points881 points 3 months ago
I read that in an epic grandpa voice.
[–]jdk 539 points540 points541 points 3 months ago
I read that in Clint Eastwood's voice in Gran Torino.
[–]fench 162 points163 points164 points 3 months ago
WHAT ARE ALL YOU FISH-HEADS LOOKING AT?
[–]umop_apisdn 64 points65 points66 points 3 months ago
Also make sure you know the difference between a problem and a predicament.
Problems have solutions; predicaments have outcomes. Treating a predicament as a problem or vice versa leads to wasted effort and bad outcomes.
[–]japaneseknotweed 845 points846 points847 points 3 months ago
Keep a cardboard box in your car.
When you need to change a tire, kneel on it.
Until then, chuck everything in it so your car doesn't fill with crap. When it's full sort it out.
Also, know how to change a tire.
[–]MisanthropicAsshole 283 points284 points285 points 3 months ago
You could kneel on a floor mat from the car.
[–]proutler 1155 points1156 points1157 points 3 months ago
You can never have enough socks.
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[–]Napalm4Kidz 514 points515 points516 points 3 months ago
This makes... so much sense.
[–]The_Jacobian 176 points177 points178 points 3 months ago
Where the fuck do they keep running off to?
[–]mydogdoesntcuddle 466 points467 points468 points 3 months ago
my dogs just steal mine and cuddle with them.
[–]alekzander5 546 points547 points548 points 3 months ago
Somehow I think you're lying...
[–]IamAhamsterAMA 1303 points1304 points1305 points 3 months ago
"When in doubt, throw it out." - because food poisoning sucks.
[–]airlancelot 800 points801 points802 points 3 months ago
and throwing stuff is fun.
[–]shzadh 349 points350 points351 points 3 months ago
When in doubt, put it in your mouth.
[–]Element7AB 216 points217 points218 points 3 months ago
No.
[–]msarts 543 points544 points545 points 3 months ago
If you don't want anyone to find out, don't do it
[–]0pAwesome 270 points271 points272 points 3 months ago
But I cleared my browser history! No one will ever find out!
[–]RoboLovah 2020 points2021 points2022 points 3 months ago
Keep cool, never freeze.
I read that on a condiment bottle.
[–]MrRC 843 points844 points845 points 3 months ago
shake well before use
[–]superkidney 386 points387 points388 points 3 months ago
"Should I fap today?" Shakes magic 8 ball
[–]speedy6635 225 points226 points227 points 3 months ago
Answer hazy, try again
[–]lordkabab 182 points183 points184 points 3 months ago
Concentrate.
[–]vaalmic 193 points194 points195 points 3 months ago
So deep...
[–]Haribon 1017 points1018 points1019 points 3 months ago
No matter how hard you try, all the glitter won't come off.
[–]Asdayasman 366 points367 points368 points 3 months ago
I fucking swear glitter has a half-life of a year. Last time I came into contact with glitter was March 2002, and I still occasionally find bits of it in my bellybutton.
[–]AnthillNapalm 367 points368 points369 points 3 months ago
I am a glittertologist, and the half-life of glitter is exactly 6.2 months.
When our descendants find your body in posterity, they will know that some time between January and June 2002, you either partied hard or a stripper rubbed off on you.
[–]Vicker3000 43 points44 points45 points 3 months ago
I found a tube of glitter among the piles of random junk laying about in our lab. I poured it out on the floor in the hallway in our physics building. That was about a year ago and there's still glitter in every place imaginable in the building now.
[–]Asdayasman 59 points60 points61 points 3 months ago
I... Just felt creative, and tried to make my naked self look attractive. ._.
[–]AnthillNapalm 118 points119 points120 points 3 months ago
It's okay, son. Science does not judge.
[–]positmylife 445 points446 points447 points 3 months ago
They don't call it the herpes of craft supplies for nothing!
[–]Gobnata 1046 points1047 points1048 points 3 months ago
"Don't give anyone your best advice, because they probably won't take it." --Jack Nicholson
it has helped me realize no one listens to anything i suggest (including reddit)
[–]Off-White-Knight 819 points820 points821 points 3 months ago
I was going to take this advice to heart, but I don't want to make you a liar.
[–]Barnden 229 points230 points231 points 3 months ago
You just filled my mind with so much fuck...
[–]VeniVidiUpVoti 203 points204 points205 points 3 months ago
Its never too late to be who you might have been.
[–]PenelopeCloudywater 391 points392 points393 points 3 months ago
If something is bothering you, fix it.
[–]MangoTux 375 points376 points377 points 3 months ago
My dog is bothering me right now, but she's already fixed.
[–]Forever_Trombone 1014 points1015 points1016 points 3 months ago
Save a portion of your paycheck, no excuses.
[–]ItsTuesdaySally 775 points776 points777 points 3 months ago
Excuse: You have debt that's rapidly amounting interest. Good reason not to save.
[–]travis_of_the_cosmos 259 points260 points261 points 3 months ago
Whatever money you want to save should go into the highest-interest asset possible, assuming they're all no-risk. So a savings account and not a checking account. Why do I bring this up? Because for most people that asset is in fact a debt, often a credit card. Do the math - if you're saving at 2% interest and have a debt that is racking up 5%, you're losing 3%. I am always blown away when people are saving and also carrying credit card debt. It's ridiculous.
(As an aside this logic also doesn't apply to retirement accounts because they carry various tax and employer matching benefits. But anytime you're saving part of your regular paycheck, make sure you consider this.)
[–]keozen 134 points135 points136 points 3 months ago*
If you ever do find yourself in a place of debt always remember that your TOP priority should be the debt with the highest interest. Work down from there.
Edit: obviously I don't mean you should ignore others, but a good method is to minimum payment on everything but your highest interest one which you spam with every spare penny. When that's done pay off the next highest, etc. Also obviously I am in now way an expert or a replacement for a good debt adviser.
[–]KaiserBC 228 points229 points230 points 3 months ago
My Mom always told me 'Don't let the bastards get you down.' And always pack extra underwear.
[–]bombastical 240 points241 points242 points 3 months ago
Nothing is ever as bad as it seems in the moment. Step back, breathe deep, and keep smiling.
[–]AriesTR 1498 points1499 points1500 points 3 months ago
Righty tighty
Lefty loosy
[–]brettyrocks 562 points563 points564 points 3 months ago
Except on propane tanks. And propane accessories.
[–]whoisthere 417 points418 points419 points 3 months ago
Thanks Hank
[–]Sir_Scrotum 88 points89 points90 points 3 months ago
Damn it, propane is a family gas!
[–]thelittleking 588 points589 points590 points 3 months ago
See, the issue is that this is ambiguous if you're doing shit at a strange angle.
I always preferred "clockwise lockwise."
[–]MacroFoible 628 points629 points630 points 3 months ago
I'm always partial to "rotation vector pointed in the direction you want the damn thing to go"
[–]ajb160 39 points40 points41 points 3 months ago
Ah yes, the inimitable "right-hand rule".
[–]Galaxyman0917 491 points492 points493 points 3 months ago
My dad always stressed one thing with me. "dress for the job you want, not the job you have."
The day I started wearing more professional shirts, I started getting actual respect from people. And I am now being looked at for a promotion. I'm a cart pusher. A dingy, dirty, bottom of the barrel job, and I dress nice, because I don't want this job, I want a management job.
[–]joezuntz 1193 points1194 points1195 points 3 months ago
That's why I go to work dressed as an astronaut.
[–]Pants_R_Overatd 577 points578 points579 points 3 months ago
Don't be an idiot.
Changed my life forever. When I'm about to do something, I think "Would an idiot do this thing?" If he does, then I don't do that thing.
[–]razzertto 87 points88 points89 points 3 months ago
FYI: Most non-idiots wear pants.
[–]bigdirtyphil 1310 points1311 points1312 points 3 months ago
never get involved in a land war in asia
[–]shogun21 798 points799 points800 points 3 months ago
Only slightly less well known is this: Never go in against a Sicilian when death is on the line!
[–]thewhitish 493 points494 points495 points 3 months ago
Also never invade russia during or before winter
[–]Abyssalstudios 644 points645 points646 points 3 months ago
So... never?
[–]leoel 150 points151 points152 points 3 months ago
Unless you are damned-fucking Genghis Khan, in that case conquer half the world as you please.
[–]INDIE_GAMER 150 points151 points152 points 3 months ago
Not really advice, more philosophy and quotes that I enjoy...
"Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle." - Plato
"I much prefer the sharpest criticism of a single intelligent man to the thoughtless approval of the masses." - Johannes Kepler
"Whenever you feel like criticizing any one...just remember that all the people in this world haven't had the advantages that you've had." - F. Scott Fitzgerald
"It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it." - Aristotle
"Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results." - Albert Einstein
"Our greatest glory іѕ nоt іn nеvеr falling, but іn rising еvеrу time wе fall." – Confucius
"Great minds discuss ideas. Average minds discuss events. Small minds discuss people." - Eleanor Roosevelt
"You miss 100 percent of the shots you never take." - Wayne Gretzky
[–]Hussard 511 points512 points513 points 3 months ago
"You're a shark. Sharks are winners, and they don't look back because they have no necks. Necks are for sheep. "
[–]ServeMeCold 43 points44 points45 points 3 months ago
My only regret is that I have boneitis
[–]CaseFace20 142 points143 points144 points 3 months ago
Also if you stop moving you will die.
[–]DionyKH 142 points143 points144 points 3 months ago
By way of my mother:
"Moderation. Everything in moderation!"
Oh, and, "Closed mouths don't get fed"
[–]shanrath 1743 points1744 points1745 points 3 months ago
Another redditor once said, "Always go for the decision that makes a better story."
[–]inthisdesert 1177 points1178 points1179 points 3 months ago
But if that better story is how you wound up serving 5 years in prison for abuse of a corpse, it's probably not worth it.
[–]ramonycajones 962 points963 points964 points 3 months ago
Don't knock it til you try it.
[–]meatbowling 218 points219 points220 points 3 months ago
I live by that philosophy. It almost got me killed several times. At least they will get at good story for my funeral.
[–]Hailogon 427 points428 points429 points 3 months ago
"We don't know what was going through meatbowling's mind when he backhanded that wasps nest, nor are we entirely sure what he meant by the words 'Upvote me' as he died twitching in our arms, but what we do know is that those flying bastards damn sure aren't deterred by canned whipped cream.
May God have mercy upon his soul."
[–]inigoesdr 83 points84 points85 points 3 months ago
"Hold my beer and watch this" - meatbowling
[–]nemski 30 points31 points32 points 3 months ago
"The hardest choice is usually the right one" Many sources, but I first read it in a Buddhist book.
[–]Calmiche 1125 points1126 points1127 points 3 months ago
This too shall pass.
[–]Benmonkey7 905 points906 points907 points 3 months ago
Gandalf disagrees.
[–]DOBBYISDEAD 426 points427 points428 points 3 months ago
Fly you fools.
[–]positmylife 542 points543 points544 points 3 months ago
Your username made me cry a little.
[–]rugtoad 43 points44 points45 points 3 months ago
I don't really see this as advice, it's more of a commentary on the fleeting nature of life. I mean, sure, it's something useful to say to someone who is going through some tough shit, but it's also something you don't want to say to someone who is at a high point in their life..
The phrase of course comes from a Hebrew Parable (at least, that's one legend) in which a king gives one of his more "cheeky" wards an impossible task to sort of cut his ego down a bit. He send him on a quest to find a magic ring; if a happy man looks upon it, it makes him sad and if a sad man looks upon it, it makes him happy....
One day Solomon decided to humble Benaiah Ben Yehoyada, his most trusted minister. He said to him, “Benaiah, there is a certain ring that I want you to bring to me. I wish to wear it for Sukkot which gives you six months to find it.” “If it exists anywhere on earth, your majesty,” replied Benaiah, “I will find it and bring it to you, but what makes the ring so special?” “It has magic powers,” answered the king. “If a happy man looks at it, he becomes sad, and if a sad man looks at it, he becomes happy.” Solomon knew that no such ring existed in the world, but he wished to give his minister a little taste of humility. Spring passed and then summer, and still Benaiah had no idea where he could find the ring. On the night before Sukkot, he decided to take a walk in one of the poorest quarters of Jerusalem. He passed by a merchant who had begun to set out the day’s wares on a shabby carpet. “Have you by any chance heard of a magic ring that makes the happy wearer forget his joy and the broken-hearted wearer forget his sorrows?” asked Benaiah. He watched the grandfather take a plain gold ring from his carpet and engrave something on it. When Benaiah read the words on the ring, his face broke out in a wide smile. That night the entire city welcomed in the holiday of Sukkot with great festivity. “Well, my friend,” said Solomon, “have you found what I sent you after?” All the ministers laughed and Solomon himself smiled. To everyone’s surprise, Benaiah held up a small gold ring and declared, “Here it is, your majesty!” As soon as Solomon read the inscription, the smile vanished from his face. The jeweler had written three Hebrew letters on the gold band: gimel, zayin, yud, which began the words “Gam zeh ya’avor” — “This too shall pass.” At that moment Solomon realized that all his wisdom and fabulous wealth and tremendous power were but fleeting things, for one day he would be nothing but dust.
One day Solomon decided to humble Benaiah Ben Yehoyada, his most trusted minister. He said to him, “Benaiah, there is a certain ring that I want you to bring to me. I wish to wear it for Sukkot which gives you six months to find it.”
“If it exists anywhere on earth, your majesty,” replied Benaiah, “I will find it and bring it to you, but what makes the ring so special?”
“It has magic powers,” answered the king. “If a happy man looks at it, he becomes sad, and if a sad man looks at it, he becomes happy.”
Solomon knew that no such ring existed in the world, but he wished to give his minister a little taste of humility.
Spring passed and then summer, and still Benaiah had no idea where he could find the ring.
On the night before Sukkot, he decided to take a walk in one of the poorest quarters of Jerusalem. He passed by a merchant who had begun to set out the day’s wares on a shabby carpet.
“Have you by any chance heard of a magic ring that makes the happy wearer forget his joy and the broken-hearted wearer forget his sorrows?” asked Benaiah.
He watched the grandfather take a plain gold ring from his carpet and engrave something on it.
When Benaiah read the words on the ring, his face broke out in a wide smile.
That night the entire city welcomed in the holiday of Sukkot with great festivity. “Well, my friend,” said Solomon, “have you found what I sent you after?”
All the ministers laughed and Solomon himself smiled.
To everyone’s surprise, Benaiah held up a small gold ring and declared, “Here it is, your majesty!”
As soon as Solomon read the inscription, the smile vanished from his face.
The jeweler had written three Hebrew letters on the gold band: gimel, zayin, yud, which began the words “Gam zeh ya’avor” — “This too shall pass.”
At that moment Solomon realized that all his wisdom and fabulous wealth and tremendous power were but fleeting things, for one day he would be nothing but dust.
[–]jon81 86 points87 points88 points 3 months ago
Believe none of what you hear, and only half of what you see.
[–]5ragle 552 points553 points554 points 3 months ago
Use sunscreen.
[–]goodreverend 82 points83 points84 points 3 months ago
I have two, both of which I've gotten from other sources.
The first: if someone makes you an option, don't make them a priority.
I'm not so sure how much I believe that one anymore. The second piece of advice, however, I live by. From Bukowski:
“If you're going to try, go all the way. Otherwise, don't even start. This could mean losing girlfriends, wives, relatives and maybe even your mind. It could mean not eating for three or four days. It could mean freezing on a park bench. It could mean jail. It could mean derision. It could mean mockery--isolation. Isolation is the gift. All the others are a test of your endurance, of how much you really want to do it. And, you'll do it, despite rejection and the worst odds. And it will be better than anything else you can imagine. If you're going to try, go all the way. There is no other feeling like that. You will be alone with the gods, and the nights will flame with fire. You will ride life straight to perfect laughter. It's the only good fight there is.”
[–]locomucho 27 points28 points29 points 3 months ago
An old Cherokee is teaching his grandson about life. "A fight is going on inside me," he said to the boy.
"It is a terrible fight and it is between two wolves. One is evil - he is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego."
He continued, "The other is good - he is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion, and faith. The same fight is going on inside you - and inside every other person, too."
The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather, "Which wolf will win?"
The old Cherokee simply replied, "The one you feed."
[–]appropinquabamusne 272 points273 points274 points 3 months ago
"There's only one rule that I know of, babies—God damn it, you've got to be kind." - Kurt Vonnegut, Jr.
[–]the_weak_sauce 1153 points1154 points1155 points 3 months ago
Don't forget to bring a towel!
[–]Va1entine 419 points420 points421 points 3 months ago
can't tell if ford prefect or just reeeeeaallly high...
[–]wildpeaches 343 points344 points345 points 3 months ago
You're a towel.
[–]Jonthrei 56 points57 points58 points 3 months ago
Ford, you're turning into a penguin. Stop it.
[–]Primeribsteak 380 points381 points382 points 3 months ago
Stay away from reddit. It's too late for me. I can't leave.
[–]facemelt88 389 points390 points391 points 3 months ago
Today is the oldest you have ever been and the youngest you will ever be again. Try not to waste it.
[–]anbeasley 182 points183 points184 points 3 months ago
You only get one life. You get one chance. And when you do something wrong accept it for all it is and learn from it. No matter what you do you will always be a fool when you are young. So do not let that stop you from achieving your dreams. Also have a trip guide if you ever attempt to do drugs.
[–]thebiglouboo 140 points141 points142 points 3 months ago
Don't allow yourself to be fooled by your own thoughts. Realize when your trying to convince yourself of something on observation alone, analyze a situation from as many perspectives as possible. Question everything, especially that which you are certain of.
[–]elizabu 601 points602 points603 points 3 months ago
Don't assume anything.
[–]fulanitodetal 532 points533 points534 points 3 months ago
This just ruined all of my statistical tools.
[–]razzertto 252 points253 points254 points 3 months ago
And my economics!
[–]Bladelink 458 points459 points460 points 3 months ago
And my axe!
Wait..
[–]razzertto 201 points202 points203 points 3 months ago
You have an axe, I'm not waiting for shit.
[–]lollerkeet 52 points53 points54 points 3 months ago
This sounds nice in theory, but assumptions are needed to make decisions. Certainty is nice but rare (arguably impossible).
[–]Wintermaul 413 points414 points415 points 3 months ago
"Always be the dumbest person in the room." - That way you can always learn something.
[–]vogonpoetry4life 597 points598 points599 points 3 months ago
i believe it goes, "if you're the smartest person in the room, then you're in the wrong room."
essentially the same message tho
[–]Kaose42 73 points74 points75 points 3 months ago
Reminded me of, "You only get smarter by playing a smarter opponent." Not the best movie but a great quote.
[–]happilythree 1396 points1397 points1398 points 3 months ago
You can best judge the character of a person by the way the treat a waiter, maid, cashier, etc. Seeing how a person treats a stranger is the best way to judge a person's character, particularly seeing how a person treats another human being who is "lower" than them in a social setting.
[–]Comma20 1194 points1195 points1196 points 3 months ago
The best judge of character is not how someone treats his equals, but how he treats his lessers.
I do believe that is the phrase.
[–]happilythree 293 points294 points295 points 3 months ago
Exactly.
I also think a big part of it is just if a person is narcissistic enough to automatically regard, say, a waiter as "lesser". Yeah, they may make a lot less than you but past that, you have no way to judge their value as a human being and if you place all of a person's value on their paycheck, you are a jerk.
[–]fulanitodetal 79 points80 points81 points 3 months ago
"Go Master happilythree!"
[–]acupeter 205 points206 points207 points 3 months ago
along the lines of "A nation's greatness is measured by how it treats its weakest members." ~ Mahatma Ghandi
[–]HilariousScreenname 891 points892 points893 points 3 months ago
Never pet a burning dog.
[–]sesla[S] 257 points258 points259 points 3 months ago
Words to live by.
[–]ColHunterGathers 203 points204 points205 points 3 months ago
It's never too early for pizza.
[–]that1guyDrew 2088 points2089 points2090 points 3 months ago
Smart girls like it when you make them feel pretty. Pretty girls like it when you make them feel smart.
[–]oneslicknick 1038 points1039 points1040 points 3 months ago
What about a girl who's pretty smart?
[–]Adaptingfate 1568 points1569 points1570 points 3 months ago
They like Milk-Bones, going for walks and sniffing other dogs' butts.
[–]Shaysdays 282 points283 points284 points 3 months ago
The same thing goes for men, but substitute 'strong' for 'pretty.'
[–]Forbiddian 619 points620 points621 points 3 months ago
"Oh, I know you're lying, I'm not very strong."
"No, I bet you could do, like, 10 pushups!"
"Heh, well... flexes"
[–]dyl666 340 points341 points342 points 3 months ago
FYI, it's not pretty when you fail to actually do those 10 push-ups.
Not pretty at all.
[–]thewhitish 20 points21 points22 points 3 months ago
Even when it seems like the perfect time to be an asshole, do not be an asshole.
[–]zeveronian 497 points498 points499 points 3 months ago
He who hesitates, masturbates.
[–]sancezz2136 146 points147 points148 points 3 months ago
Dont know if really deep or just funny
[–]Kenneth_the_Drifter 347 points348 points349 points 3 months ago
The top voted comment is usually one of the first posted. Get in at the ground floor!
[–]Auxin000 429 points430 points431 points 3 months ago
Don't be a dumbass. -My Dad
Simple and effective words to live by.
[–]fattyforhire 462 points463 points464 points 3 months ago
Don't be a dumbass- red foreman
[–]awittygamertag 243 points244 points245 points 3 months ago
Don't cook bacon naked, it's not worth it. Put on some pants first.
[–]OmgMacnCheese 130 points131 points132 points 3 months ago
Wrap it before you tap it.
[–]princecorum 89 points90 points91 points 3 months ago
put your procrastination too the side for 1 hour a day, and spend that 1 hour finishing things.. after 3 months you will be cleared.
[–]Neodymium_Modem 36 points37 points38 points 3 months ago
So you procrastinate your procrastination?
[–]McLogan 648 points649 points650 points 3 months ago*
Masturbate before making important relationship decisions.
[–]sixtyt3 243 points244 points245 points 3 months ago
Yes, Master
[–]philon 48 points49 points50 points 3 months ago
Masturbate before masterbate
[–]Ragnrok 1412 points1413 points1414 points 3 months ago
To impress a chick, helicopter dick.
[–]Va1entine 695 points696 points697 points 3 months ago
to impress a chick?
[–]WhatTheFDR 1812 points1813 points1814 points 3 months ago
Helicopter dick.
[–]jdmCrush 488 points489 points490 points 3 months ago
Tautology can be quite effective because tautology can be quite effective.
[–]hagerty9009 186 points187 points188 points 3 months ago
Corollary: Every single holiday a dick in a box.
[–]longboardingerrday 319 points320 points321 points 3 months ago
You are not as _______ as you think you are.
[–]Fritzguyes 806 points807 points808 points 3 months ago
Stop going to Reddit for serious advice.
[–]Heelincal 667 points668 points669 points 3 months ago
Doesn't this mean your advice is bad advice?
TL;DR CATCH-22
[–]ProfessorSamOak 1478 points1479 points1480 points 3 months ago
TRAINER TIPS: If you want to avoid battles, stay away from the grassy areas!
[–]Via_Scribblenauts 448 points449 points450 points 3 months ago
http://i.imgur.com/AX0RA.jpg
[–]a-nutella-sandwich 381 points382 points383 points 3 months ago
Me being the idiot I am, just tried to click the start button. ಠ_ಠ
[–]savoytruffle 18 points19 points20 points 3 months ago
Don't ever say anything to the police.
[–]Moofies 73 points74 points75 points 3 months ago
Something my dad taught me: Nobody has any idea what theyre really doing, and theyre all just making it up as they go.
all it takes is a username and password
create account
is it really that easy? only one way to find out...
already have an account and just want to login?
login
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